Husband and Wife Behavior & Secret of Children's Health

Husband and Wife Behavior  & Secret of Children's Health 

I have seen many women who talk to their husbands in a loud and bitter tone. And even innormal conversation, they adopt a sarcastic and sarcastic tone. Generally they are divided into two types.
Whether women are literate (experts in contemporary studies, or experts in religious studies)
Or illiterate, 
The best morals and the best training can be found in anyone.
For example, if the husband forgot to bring vegetables or something... then the first type of women asks with a cute smile, did you forget to bring vegetables...?
While the other type of women make a sarcastic sentence in a loud voice... that now I should go to buy vegetables by myself? The gas will go away. Make it yourself and then eat it, or go out and eat it...
Even if all the necessities are available in the house, still the tank peeps and demands what is lacking.
As if the thing itself is essential, like coriander, mint, lemon.

This simple example can be thousands of examples.

For example, if the husband says that today there is such and such work or compulsion, then he cannot take you home today...

Women brought up by a good mother, will be interested in the compulsion of the husband, what happened to the well-being...? 

I will understand his compulsion and will fully cooperate with him.

While other types of women (whose childhood is spent seeing their mothers not respecting their husbands, or mothers who do not particularly train their daughters) will start saying things here that whenever my work comes to you The work comes out, you could have done your work later, etc., etc.

The first type of women who are married in today's society, their home is like paradise for men.

While the behavior of other types of women either appears after a long time of marriage, is not noticed in matters such as marriage, or on the occasion of happiness such as marriage, artificial lips and tone are adopted more, when the parties Go out of your mind...

Now, since such women have come to your marriage, so be patient...

It is a famous story, isn't it... There was a very great saint of Allah, his wife used to speak in a harsh tone, used to throw sarcastic phrases at each other. ..

The elders said that only his bitter words have brought me closer to Allah, think that the reason for not leaving him is that Allah will give me his best reward in heaven...

This bad distinction of attitude and mood is seen in bad civilized conversation, rudeness and intolerance in both men and women.

Personally, I was very worried about the temperament of my future spouse. Because with that, my life could have become a heaven... or even if all the necessities and facilities of life were available, the restlessness of the whole life would be destined.

In my eyes, the value of marriage was like a blackboard...the writing on it could have been erased and written from the beginning...because life is only given once, wasting it on the same woman was like dropping its value.

It's been more than 15 years since I finished my search....

Allah has given the best companions.

Sorry to come to my topic guys in this world everyone is concerned with wealth, your status matters, your lifestyle is desirable,

1. No one has ever tried to know what kind of person he is going to share his entire life with.

2. How many true Muslims are based on faith. No one has asked a question about prayer.

3. Life and future can be very good in 50 thousand monthly income but here everyone wanted a boy with above 5 lakh income.. 

4. Everyone here needs a government job above 18 scale. My own father and brothers do labor

5. The first question is about your income. If you are not a doctor or an engineer or an army officer, then you will not get the message again.

6. The house should be your own...even if your parents have spent their whole life in one room..

Where have we gone?

With whom we are going to share our time, body, soul and whole life, we don't want to know what is his temperament, what is the human being, what is the level of morality, what is his inner nature.

                  What is the secret of children's health?

The husband's love for his wife and the wife's love for her husband is the secret of children's health.

One attendee at a family seminar said:

'What is the best thing a mother can do for her children?'

The answers varied: 'love, religion, sincerity, piety, friendship, open-mindedness, tranquility, kindness' and their synonyms.

The speaker said quietly: 'All your answers are very important in training. But according to my research, the most important thing is:

The best a mother can do for her children is to love their father.

Marital strife can affect a child's brain development, with negative effects starting in the first few months and lasting for a long time.

A researcher says:

A man came to me and asked how I should train my child so that he can grow up to enter Harvard University.

I replied: 'If you want to increase your child's mental abilities, go home and make love to your wife.

In summary,

A loving and harmonious family can do wonders for the physical and mental health of children, and all this is possible through the love of husband and wife for each other.

A child surrounded by parental love and attention shows less illness, less stubbornness, less violence, less psychological problems, and better academic performance.