Two Main Purposes of Marriage & Causes of Termites in Youth

              Two main purposes of marriage and their importance

In our society preparing for marriage means doing wedding shopping, arranging wedding ceremonies, have we ever felt the need to understand that the children who are getting married, in the light of Quran and Hadith. They have tried to explain each other's rights and duties.

Do parents take the time to read the translation and interpretation of some verses of Surah Al-Nisa, Surah Al-Nur and Surah Al-Baqara which are related to marriage so that the bride and groom can know the nature of their relationship in the best way.

If asked what is the purpose of marriage, the answer of most people is yes

Is the Sunnah of the Prophet ï·º or is it necessary for the survival of the generation?
Nikah is a religious framework and keeping this framework in mind, there are actually two main purposes of Nikah,

The first goal is the fulfillment of the individual's psychological, emotional and instinctual needs and fulfillment is a result of relationship. Human fulfillment is possible only when one feels true happiness and contentment and this is possible only with a lasting marriage relationship. A relationship that is established without marriage may have temporary happiness but will lack satisfaction and peace and such a relationship does not last long.

Two Main Purposes of Marriage  & Causes of Termites in Youth

Another purpose of marriage is to lead the society on the path of goodness. Declaration in marriage is a condition under which a person is responsible for another person and when these responsibilities are fulfilled in a good manner, the element of goodness and purity grows in the society.


People in the society fulfill their responsibilities in a good way. In order to fulfill this relationship in the best way, the husband And the wife has responsibilities that give lasting happiness and strength to the marriage relationship.

Husband's responsibility:

The main responsibility of a husband is to protect his wife.

Fulfill all the needs of his wife, give her attention, love, praise and thank her for taking care of all the members of his household.
It is very important for the husband to understand how much importance should be given to which relationship and which relationship is the most important.
A husband should learn to balance in every relationship because when he is not able to maintain balance in relationships, problems arise.

The responsibility of the wife:

After marriage, the wife should take care that she is now a daughter, sister, wife, daughter-in-law, sister-in-law and mother and the nature of her responsibility has changed.
Accepting this fact that Allah has made the man the head with joy and love, give honor and respect to the husband while believing his legitimate words.


If you are more important than your children to your husband and your wife, it means that there is love, peace and contentment in your relationship.

Marriage is not just about physical relationship but about living with each other's flaws, preferences and trimming the sharp corners of one's personality.

 Causes of termites in youth

The evidence of youth not coming again are those people who, instead of youth coming to youth, go straight to old age. Youth is the intoxication of pleasure and power, but when it runs like an unbridled horse or a car without brakes. Then in the end, the only way to end is trouble. In fact, if youth is in moderation, under control and in the position of health, there is nothing more beautiful in the universe for man.

But when there is a defect in it due to illness, stupidity or by nature, then there is a self-inflicted destruction or God's death. He commits acts like suicide, intoxication, failure, restlessness, murder, separation, theft, despair, but later regret is the fate of such a person. Please note that there is no personal fault of such a person, but it is the effect of disobedience of the society or the disorder of the environment.

Further, the symptoms, causes and remedies found in the patient are described, after studying which one can certainly protect oneself from premature aging and the damages of youth.

Symptoms:

Irritability, weakness, heart palpitations, shortness of breath, loss of memory, loneliness, fear, futile and obscene thoughts, exhaustion, lack of interest in work, misunderstanding others, not listening to advice, lack of consistency, confusion of life. , Sleep problem, Disorganization, Suspicion, Complaint, Wasting time, Away from women, Gray hair, Premature aging, Weak immune system, Cold, Fever, Cold, Self-talk, Intolerance, Apathy, Life without purpose, Time. Dizziness, hair loss, dry body.

Reasons:

Masturbation, promiscuity, premature ejaculation, flow, intense sexual environment, poor diet, polluted and dark environment, depression, poverty, mental stress, delay in marriage, overwork, grief, separation, injustice, quickness of senses, business. Or there are reasons like educational loss, weak organs, lack of exercise, physical chronic diseases, extreme busyness, chronic colds, enmity and revenge, which lick the youth of a young man like termites.

Treatment:

Keep your environment right, establish fear of God in yourself, make the service of God's creation your motto, get out of depression and dirty environment, bow before your Lord, do not be afraid of people and humans, get timely treatment of male and physical diseases. Learn to value yourself and other human beings by valuing your own and humanity's life. Adopt a humble life.

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